12 Signs You’re Going To Succeed And 1 Sign That You Have To Change
“Life is rough, so you gotta be tough,” said Johnny Cash. If you want to succeed, you need a few weapons in your arsenal. We’ll be going through 12 of them today, along with 1 that you need to get rid of in order to be successful. From resilience to outcome independence, these essential qualities will pave the way to a brighter future.
Each of these traits plays a crucial role in personal and professional growth. Understanding and developing them can significantly impact your journey toward success. So stick around and explore with us as we unpack these key attributes and uncover the one habit that might be holding you back!
Resilience
Those with resilience can bounce back quickly from setbacks and adapt to unexpected circumstances. Resilience isn’t just about getting up when you fall; it’s about getting back up even stronger and more determined. It’s about embracing the challenges and struggles and learning from them. Each setback should be the fuel for your determination to conquer life. You’ve got this!
Expectations Vs Reality
Understanding how wide the gap usually is between expectations and reality. What you want to happen or what you think you deserve is almost always completely different from what life will throw at you. Life always throws curveballs, and you just have to learn how to knock them out of the park!
Confidence
Those with confidence believe in themselves and their abilities. They remind themselves of this, especially in high-stakes situations. Confidence is self-assured belief, not arrogance.
Outcome Independence
Outcome independence is detaching yourself from the end result of whatever you’re doing or working on. This approach helps build resilience and adaptability and ensures you don’t get down on yourself for not living up to your own expectations.
Finish What You Start
People who consistently finish what they start prove to the world they have dedication and perseverance, key qualities on the road to success. They cultivate a reputation for reliability and achievement by seeing tasks through to completion, even when it seems like nobody is paying attention. When employers see your college degree, they see that you have finished what you started.
Flexibility And Adaptability
People with these qualities can adjust and properly position themselves based on what life throws at them. They can quickly adjust to sudden changes and not freak out about it but remain calm, collected, and focused. Breathing exercises can help with remaining calm, collected, and focused.
Time Management
This skill is essential for success because if you don’t manage your time properly then it doesn’t really matter how good you are at something. In order to be successful, you need to complete tasks efficiently and in a timely manner.
Focus
Those who possess this quality have the ability to concentrate on the task at hand despite distractions, internal doubt, or external pressures. Those with focus are usually better at what they do. It can also serve as a lifeline for overcoming challenges and ultimately finding success.
Self-Discipline
Those who are self-disciplined are capable of staying focused on their goals and maintaining control over their actions and reactions. Lots of times these folks will be very stoic. A stoic can be described as someone who maintains a calm and composed demeanor. They rarely display outward signs of emotion and are not easily swayed by turbulent feelings.
Emotional Intelligence
They understand their own emotions and those of others, enabling them to maintain composure and navigate interpersonal dynamics. The quality of empathy can help you succeed despite our profit-driven capitalist narrative.
Anxiety
Contrary to popular belief, I think the right amount of anxiety is good on the road to success. If you have some anxiety about wasting your life, then I think that’s a positive thing. It can be a negative, though, because people prone to anxiety may find it challenging to manage their stress levels effectively under pressure.
Don’t Dwell On The Past
Thick skin is an essential quality for success. Learn to forgive because it’s oftentimes harder than not forgiving. It will build self-discipline and empower you not to dwell on the past. Focus on what you want to achieve, and if you don’t know what to achieve, then FIND IT! Find it quickly because your life is but a vapor. Make the most of it!
Sign You’re Not Destined For Success
Depression and substance abuse often go hand in hand. They can create a vicious cycle that WILL be detrimental to success. Both can drain one’s motivation, cloud judgment, and hinder the ability to bounce back from setbacks, making it incredibly challenging to achieve personal or professional goals. If this is you, you should seek support by reaching out to someone close to you, or you can call 1-800-622-4357 (SAMHSA National Helpline).